Topic: “Living Life By Definitions”

Alot of times we let Webster Dictionary define our lives. We let certain words define us and make us who we are. We let the definition of “Normal” (a. according with, constituting, or not deviating from a norm, rule, or principle) scare us to adventure out and be who we are suppose to be. We lose sight of what we want in life. Take a moment to appreciate where you are and what you have. Life is about the journey and not the destination.

Who defines “Success”? (b: favorable or desired outcome; also : the attainment of wealth, favor, or eminence.) I’ll tell you, you do! Often people define it by reaching goals or having lots of money. No success is doing what you want, and when you want to do it. Regardless of whats in your wallet. I’m not “Rich” (1. having abundant possessions and especially material wealth) but I’m still happy.

We let material things make us “Complete” (a. having all necessary parts, elements, or steps) but then what if we can’t get what we want, will you not be complete? Or people tend to tie wholeness to “Love” (a. (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers. (3) : affection based on admiration, or common interests) which means you aren’t complete unless you’re with someone you love? We should always feel complete. Being complete with what you have, will allow you to always be happy and fulfilled. 

We are all “Perfect” (a. being entirely without fault or defect) because we are all different, so who is to set the standard of what perfection should be? Who defines what “Beauty” (a. the quality or aggregate of qualities in a person or thing that gives pleasure to the senses or pleasurably exalts the mind or spirit) is? What makes your looks better than mine? Nothing. I am who I am and you are who you are. Don’t say I’m “Ugly” (b. offensive or unpleasant to any sense) because you who are you to say what it is. I am me, not ugly or beautiful or handsome, I’m ME!

‘Don’t let the “Fear” (b. to be afraid of) of striking out, keep you from playing the game.’ We are setting ourselves up for failure if we do. People say I’m “Different” (1. partly or totally unlike in nature, form or quality) because I’m “Gay” (2. of, relating to, or involving sexual intercourse between persons of the same sex) but I would never let people scare me to not be who I am. I’m a strong believer in Christ and in the Bible it does say things about a man and a woman but God made me. God made me who I am, I’m not this way because I chose too. It is who I am.

Lets be who we are and not what Webster makes us to be. 

Topic: “Hookups - NSA Fun”

I can never wrap my fingers around why people do this. Why people put themselves at risk? The risk of the number of diseases that are out there. 

I’ll be completely honest, I had my share of these but I learned and grown. I was a young teenager with raging hormones! hahahaha. :P

In my opinion sex with someone random does not feel good, yeah its nice, who doesn’t like sex? So I completely understand that aspect of it. But at the same time, to me, if anything is going into my holes, you’re officially mine. No ifs ands or buts. I get attached way to easily to just be able to have sex and leave them and never talk to them again.

People use excuses and say, “I’m afraid of commitment.” Really? I don’t believe that. You’re going to have a life change to commit to if you should catch something. Or “No one wants me”, Yeah no one wants to settle with you because you hooked up with everyone. Do you want that rep? Do you want people to think of sex or call you a slut when your name is mentioned? 

The social networks all around us aren’t helping the situation either. All the different hookup websites and apps. I was watching a tv show and it mentioned a website for married people to hookup with other people. It’s disgusting on what people are depending on, sex. 

This is just my opinion on the situation and everyone has there own. If this is the lifestyle you like. The lifestyle of just getting in and out with no commitment and no emotions attached, then by all means go ahead and do so. I’m not trying to make you do a life change. Hooking up just lowers your looks. If someone was completely hot, the total package (looks wise) and then I found out they’re a slut, then the looks go right out the door and they are no longer attractive. 

Especially in LOVE!

I rather make love than just have sex.

I just shaved.
Yepppp; Pubes, balls and ass! :P